Please don’t crucify me.
I am not a selfie addict and I have never been one.
Long before Facebook has become popular and Instagram a favorite venue for posting those shots, selfie has been in vogue although ten years ago you won’t call a self-portrait a selfie. It gained a wider popularity among the youth overtime. Blame it on the proliferation of cheap cellphones or digital camera. You are not in if you don’t have at least a 5mp mobile phone. Never mind that it takes grainy photos as long as one can post them on social media. The lure of having a new mobile device with a more tempting 12 megapixel camera on the side is enough. You won’t need a high-end camera to take selfies. They take clear photos along with apps that you can choose to make them nicer than they actually look.
Why did I even think of blogging about it? It reminds me of that time I rode a bus going to UST, the long ride would make you notice every one just to pass the time. I blogged about it here somewhere. You know that kind of thing where the bedroom is as wide as the bus you were riding. Yes, some girls or gals would not think twice doing their “personal thing” to improve their looks, never mind that they are in a very public place like a moving bus.
I was eating an early lunch at Jollibee today when someone took the seat opposite mine on the next table. I was surprised when she started combing her hair, applying on face powder and lipstick, I can’t help but stare. What? In a public place, an eatery at that? Oh well :( As if that is not enough, she took out her cellphone, pointed it in front of her and made those facial expressions that look so funny to me but I was thinking, “oh, selfie”. There’s the pouting lips, a demure smile, a smile showing her teeth, an expression like she is kissing someone in front of her, a formal expression on her face. I told myself, “candid selfie shots, so that’s how its done.” :) then her companion, probably a friend arrived with a tray of sandwiches and drinks. I was about to finish my meal and took out a small notebook to write another blog post, when I looked up though, I was surprised that she was doing the same thing that her friend did earlier, even changing seats so she could have the angle she wanted.
You might say, I am an old soul, an old generation. I’d rather take photos of something about nature or take photos of Nate when he is around than taking a selfie shot of this old face and smiling in front of a camera. There is one thing more I do notice nowadays, even Facebook has that new app called filters where you could make your face so flawless, even finer than a baby’s face. It’s not natural, it destroys the true image of a subject. I don’t know, maybe it’s just me. What do you think?
Oh, they call it selfie.
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There is this new feature on Facebook going on for I think about a year now. It’s called On this Day which they feature every day to remind you of what shout outs you previously wrote on your wall. I chanced upon this, a short write-up on writing which I posted four years ago.
Using puff-words (using big words to sound smart) does not always mean you are a good writer. It’s not too uncommon for us to substitute words or phrases that strike us as fancier or smarter for simpler ones. It does not define that you are a good writer that way, what is more important is you get your message across simply and easily, walang palabok, as they say.
It earned a lot of comments from my writer friends who also think that “a good piece of literature is one that uses everyday words in a way that encourages the reader’s mind to clearly envision the idea that the writer is trying to impart, not how much ‘highfalutin’ words the writer knows”.
I was lucky to get hold of a lovely book On Writing by Stephen King which I blogged about here a long time ago. To summarize it, another friend said, just KISS which means “keep it simple sweetheart”. She might have joked about its meaning but I also believe that in all things, simplicity is beauty.
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Posted in blog update, blogging, gardening, life, Philippine Politics, thoughts and ramblings, tagged blogging, gardening, life, Philippine Politics, silence speaks, thoughts and ramblings on June 14, 2016 |
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Can’t believe it’s been a week since my last blog post here. I’ve been busy, busy, busy . Maybe before I can finish the remaining job of repotting plants and cleaning the rest of the area at our back garden, it’s time to trim the carabao grass again😦 I know, it is such a backbreaking job but the sense of fulfillment you get when you see a clean and fresh-looking garden is more than enough. It happens when blogging takes a back seat and gardening is an inspired goal. The joys of gardening – chasing thoughts in your head and listening to silent words while pulling a stubborn weed – priceless moments savouring the language of silence.
Despite the busy days, I managed to update my blog on Nate. He started pre-school yesterday, nursery class. Of course we are all excited, who wouldn’t be? And I am proud that finally, the concreting of our sidewalks are done. I planted some Iris at the corner beneath the trimmed Bougainvillea. Josef trimmed our Arius tree, shaped like a robust Christmas tree and I thought, it is ready for Christmas decor…haha! Our lone Gardenia shrub is now sporting a new look sans the unwanted leaves and small branches. From pots, I replanted my prayer plants direct to the ground, they are thriving nicely.
The weather here is so unpredictable nowadays. Sometimes, it rains very early in the morning or late at night. Occasionally, we still experience thunderstorms. Still a bit under the weather, a week-long cough brought by sudden rain, then a hot and sunny afternoon then it gets cold at night when it rains late.
I am trying to avoid writing about our political situation here though my fingers are itching to tap the keyboards of my computer. I’ve lately decided to just “wait and see” because I don’t want to dwell so much on negativity.
Hello again, I hope you are all doing good.
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For a while there, I got confused. WordPress is doing a lot of changes and it is sometimes hard to catch up when you don’t blog regularly. My dashboard seems to have taken a different format. I was looking for the WP Admin on the upper left side only to find it relegated at the lowest portion of the dashboard. I am of the old school (haha) preferring the old format even when posting. I’d rather see the bar graph on my stats than just the numbers pasted on the screen. It is easier to interpret the former because you can compare how your blog did the past days to your newest post.
I am rather careful before I hit publish because when you do the editing, it reverts to the new format and sometimes even the alignment goes crazy. Is it just me? Are you experiencing it too?
Anyway, despite all the changes I am grateful that there is this medium where I can share my thoughts and find new friends. Thank you WordPress!
Oh, this is my 1,803rd post. Hooray
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I feel so lazy, so lazy to compose a blog post. Every time I attempt to write one, I always end up visiting and reading other blogs instead.
This is one of those rare times that nothing comes out, one of those times when one is not inspired enough to write. Maybe one of these days, the muse will come back. I chanced upon this link which was posted by a friend on Facebook. I got curious. I seldom click these sites which tell you who you are, who are your favorites based on your FB posts, how you would react in a particular situation and lots and lots more. I love grammarly.com though. The site is very useful for me. To cut the story short, here’s the result and it made me smile:
You are creative, expressive, thoughtful. Therefore you should be a writer.
Being a writer is too strong a word that I would use though. Suffice to say, I love stringing words into short stories. Our blog posts are usually just that, telling stories and sharing them with the world.
I am trying to catch up on my reading challenge, I have long neglected it in favor of other things. Two books in advance, not bad. It is hard to pick up a book again after so many days of inactivity. I recently finished one about owning a bookstore, loving books like they are part of the family, the characters deeply ingrained in one’s psyche that you think it is for real, jumping at you from the pages and you long for the story to continue after you turned the last page.
I follow Seth Godin’s blog. I find it engrossing although the blog posts are just short but the contents are varied and inspiring.
I’d better make my morning a little productive. Hello world!
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I wonder if this is even worth blogging about. I have a confession to make. I was not able to concentrate on the mass today. Mom and I attended the 9am mass at the nearby Parish (as we always do every Sunday) but Josef chose to hear mass later this afternoon since he did some overtime work last night. It was only mom and I at our favorite pew. A few minutes after the mass started, an old couple sat on the same pew. The old lady (maybe as old as mom) sat next to me and I smelled the overpowering scent of her perfume. I felt like gagging and have to cover my mouth too without being obvious because my throat suddenly hurt. Know that feeling of a cold and cough starting and you can even taste the scent of the perfume?
Mom used to spray herself with such similar scent, strong, flowery and overwhelming (for want of a better description) but I told her that when the weather is hot, such kind of perfume is not advisable. I bought her a mild scented baby cologne instead and she liked it.
Why is it that some older people are more ostentatious when it comes to grooming complete with jewelry like they are going to a party – rings on fingers, bracelets, watch, earrings, necklace? I hope when I get a little older than I am today, I won’t need to surround myself with such things that are sometimes temptations to snatchers and robbers out there.
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Posted in blog update, blogging, Goodreads' 2016 Reading Challenge, journeys, life, Philippine Election 2016, thoughts, thoughts and ramblings, tagged a bit of myself, blogging, journeys, life, Philippine Politics, thoughts, thoughts and ramblings on May 14, 2016 |
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Gosh, my regular readers must be so disappointed seeing the same posts for quite a while now. Some are looking into old blog posts as far back as 2011 and 2012. Imagine two pathetic posts for this month. It’s not because I got tired of sharing my world with you but every time I try to compose something here, I always end up going back to the latest result of the vice-presidential race. More deep breaths, more sighs of relief, more prayers and a gargantuan faith that our Leni will win. She is ahead for several days now but you’ll never know with a Marcos on the other side of the fence. The latter said the only way that he could lose is when he is cheated. What arrogance coming from someone whose family has cheated and emptied the coffers of the Philippines thirty years ago.
Opps, sorry, I promised I won’t be talking about politics anymore. My lips are sealed.
There is an ongoing virus among dogs here in our area. I forgot the exact term used by the vet but it’s like a severe flu, always undetected at first until your pet just won’t eat and it slowly dies. Sad to say, we lost our Japanese Spitz last May 01 and our Aspin the other day. We have only one dog left, a half Lab, half Spitz a friend gave us two years ago. I haven’t gotten used yet tending the garden without our small dog always trailing behind. It really pains me to see them gone.
I was supposed to blog about my seventh year last May 11. It’s not the same as the one that WordPress celebrates with me because it took me a year to actually post something after I created Dreams and Escapes. I transferred some blog entries culled from my previous Multiply site, those posts that were not current at the time I seriously considered blogging here for good. I never left since. Though it was a hard start, I am still here. Back then, there were no like buttons to speak of but WordPress was so supportive of suggesting topics when I joined the 2011 Writing Challenge. I was given a badge but deleted it a few years later. They gave feedbacks for every post like “amazing, fantastic, wonderful etc.” When I think of all those times that I have to wrack my brain so I could stay updated with the challenge, I smile at myself and say I have a lot of patience after all. I am a self-taught blogger constantly looking for themes that would suit my blog, always customizing on the side, editing old posts. Believe me, there will always be some words or two that sometimes make no sense at all. Well, one learns as one goes along. It is one of the challenges of blogging.
This is my 1,790th post for this blog alone, add that to the four remaining blogs that I maintain and it would probably reach 2,000 entries. Having a bigger stats is a bonus of course. I am hoping though that there would be more interactions/comments on the side because I am curious to know where they are coming from. My newest blog, Dreams Never End got more likes and comments when I started there. My 2016 Reading Challenge has gone haywire the past days with only one book read in advance. I hope I’ll be able to catch up in the coming days.
Bye for now, I hope to visit your sites soon. I miss reading your blogs.
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