Posted in Faith, journeys, life, month-ender blog, silence speaks, thoughts, tagged a bit of myself, Faith, journeys, life, reflections, silence speaks, thoughts, thoughts and ramblings on October 1, 2015 |
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September came and went like lightning, a dry September if you ask me because the days were just like summer, so hot with thunderstorms in the late afternoon or early evening. I can’t recall any particular event worth-remembering except Nissa’s birthday and having Nate around over the weekend. And yes, the endless gardening task trimming the grass, deadheading my Gardenia and Crossandra and replanting some Ruellias. Gardening is sometimes a bit boring if you have to wake up early in the morning while the sun is still in slumber. It gets too hot even at seven in the morning.
October started with early morning drizzle then at exactly 3 o’clock this afternoon, the heavy downpour drenched our garden and our garage. Manila Water chose to replace our water meter today (of all days) and according to the contractors, they replace water meters every five years. The new gate valve has to be connected to our existing water line, bringing in a spray of mud and water that reached our car. The pressure was too strong. The rain has stopped a while ago but they haven’t cemented yet the concrete that they have to break up earlier to change the meter. There is a storm coming although we are not in its direct path but it would surely bring monsoon rains until early Saturday morning. What a start for a new month.
Still and all, I welcome October with joy and anticipation. It is my birth month after all. I am always thankful for all the graces and blessings that came and will come my way. It is a celebration of another year ahead, a celebration of life, a celebration of joys and pains that give life its meaning. Even in times of adversity, even when we feel sometimes that we are alone in this world, it is always a blessing to feel that inner strength, that unshakable faith that all would be well in the end. We learn through tears (sometimes) and we embrace gladness in our hearts. Growing old has its rewards.
Happy new month. a blessed October to all!
Yesterday is not ours to recover, but tomorrow is ours to win or lose. – BT Bradford (Hidden)
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Posted in journeys, life, Mary Oliver, Mary Oliver Quotes, silence speaks, thoughts, tagged journeys, life, Mary Oliver, Mary Oliver quotes, silence speaks, thoughts, thoughts and ramblings on September 30, 2015 |
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One of my favorite poets is Mary Oliver. Let me amend that, my favorite poet is Mary Oliver. I love her writings so I followed her page on Facebook, a sure way of being updated with her works. She has another book coming this October called Felicity and they raffled off 15 extra early copies (or galleys). I was not lucky enough to win but I hope I’ll find a copy when it goes out in bookstores. Here’s something from one of her lovely books, A Thousand Mornings.
I remember my earlier post about life being a dance and I quote:
Life is a dance. Sometimes, it is a harmonious fluid movement. We are in sync with the music, utterly attuned to the dance steps, well synchronized with the motion – two steps forward, one step back. Others may lead and others may follow. It is a mad dash to a world of perfect twists and turns, but the journey is not one long road to success and happiness. One wrong move, one wrong turn, one missed step would spell disaster.
We are constantly seeking perfection and excellence in everything we do but there is really nothing perfect in this world that we live in. Life is a meaningless pursuit without challenge. They say that the journeys walked in solitude are always the most remembered. There is something we always learn along the uneven pathways and the most profound events in our lives do not end with the six o-clock news and the setting sun.
This was when I was learning to adjust to the life of being a cancer survivor. When we falter in our steps, God is there to do the rest.
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Posted in blessings, Closer to God, inspirational, life, quotes, reflections, silence speaks, tagged blessings, Closer to God, inspirational, life, quotes, silence speaks on September 18, 2015 |
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“Be a child again. Flirt. Giggle. Dip your cookies in your milk. Take a nap. Say you’re sorry if you hurt someone. Chase a butterfly. Be a child again.”
― Max Lucado, When God Whispers Your Name
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Posted in books, life, quotes, silence speaks, thoughts, tagged Amy Tan, books, Boracay, journeys, Khaled Hosseini, life, silence speaks, thoughts, thoughts and ramblings on September 6, 2015 |
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Soaked in the quiet of the early morning.
My son just called from the airport a few minutes ago and said, he is excited. This is actually his first long vacation after so many days and months of stressful work. He, his girlfriend and three friends are going to Boracay for a week-long stay. White sand, pristine beach, lovely sunrise and sunset and amazing dream of a place for vacation. I wonder though if that still holds true because in the last few years, local and foreign tourists alike visit the place in droves. I haven’t been there so I could not aptly describe how it looks and how it feels staying there for a while. If you ask me, I’d rather spend a much-needed vacation in a quiet place, communing with nature without the noise of night parties and beach dancing. Palawan maybe would be best, my daughter raved about the place when she went there with some friends years ago. This is off-season though so probably Boracay is not that crowded compared to the summer months. I still dream of going to the northern part of the Philippines and Batanes is still number one in my bucket list and next to that would be Calayan and Ilocos. Each of us has preferences where to go, what to see and discover. He asked me what I want so I said, “find me some seaglass and a lovely key ring”. I hope my son would enjoy his vacation before he starts with a new job at JP Morgan Chase in over a month. He told me he will file his resignation in his present job when he comes back. I really prayed for this, that he really finds another job with added financial renumerations and perks to booth. The stress at work will always be there but the new work environment is something to look forward to and the new job is something that would add up to his experience.
The silence quiets the mind.
And the world is quiet here except for occasional barking of the dogs and noisy motorcycles that pass by. Khaled Hosseini couldn’t have described it best when he said and I quote: “Quiet is peace. Tranquility. Quiet is turning down the volume knob on life. Silence is pushing the off button. Shutting it down. All of it.” That’s a quote from his book, The Kite Runner. I am almost done with The Hundred Secret Senses by Amy Tan. I enjoyed this book tremendously compared to the first two books that I’ve read before by the same author. I so love the character of Kwan. Maybe in a month or a few days, I would be able to finish Anna Karenina, I’ve set is aside temporarily to read other inspiring books. Don’t ask me why, it’s an excellent classics but sometimes my eyes get tired of those long and hard to pronounce characters.
It makes you a bit introspective.
Ah, so I won’t have to set the alarm clock to wake up early. Plenty of time to read and to garden in between. The mind is busiest in these quiet moments and you can hardly keep up with the chasing thoughts that you would want to put on paper or the many stories playing in your head that you would want to relate and share. Here are some quotes that I hastily jotted down while in the middle of reading Amy Tan’s book.
“Everyone must dream. We dream to give ourselves hope. To stop dreaming – well, that’s like saying you can never change your fate.”
“Too much happiness always overflowed into tears of sorrow.”
“The world is not a place but the vastness of the soul. And the soul is nothing more than love, limitless, endless, all that moves us toward knowing what is true. . .And believing in ghosts – that’s believing that love never dies. If people we love die, then they are lost only to our ordinary senses. If we remember, we can find them anytime with our hundred secret senses. ”
Have a nice weekend everyone!
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How time really flies and some of you would probably react and say it is too early yet to greet you “Merry Christmas”. In our part of the world, Christmas celebration starts as early as September and ends up as late as February of the following year but you have probably read that in my earlier posts. There is that welcome anticipation on what the rest of the year will bring. Sometimes though, September is wrought by rainy days, flash floods, typhoons but there is that comforting thought that when the BER months come, happy days are here again because no matter what life brings, there is always that something to look forward to, a celebration with families and friends.
By the way, thank you so much for visiting my blog, for all your likes and lovely comments. I think I have reached a milestone with 350,399 hits. This made me smile :)
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Posted in inspirational, journeys, life, silence speaks, tagged inspirational, journeys, life, quotes, silence speaks, thoughts on August 12, 2015 |
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The other day, a friend who is a newly qualified teacher sent me a message looking for a poem All I Need To Know I Learned In Kindergarten. She needs it in her value education class in a public school. I told her it is not really a poem but a title of a book by Robert Fulghum, a summary of life’s little treasures that made a big impact on me when I read it several years ago. It’s actually my first encounter with Robert Fulghum. I was lucky enough to find three more of his books and they have pride of place in my bookshelves. I thought we all need to be reminded of those things our parents and our teachers taught us when we were kids, practical tips that still hold true until now. It all boils down to the basics, right? It’s the Golden Rule summed up in a few words.
Don’t hit people.
Put things back where you found them.
Clean up your own mess.
Don’t take things that aren’t yours.
Say you’re sorry when you hurt somebody.
Wash your hands before you eat.
Warm cookies and cold milk are good for you.
Live a balanced life – learn some and think some and draw and paint and sing and dance and play and work every day some.
Take a nap every afternoon.
When you go out into the world, watch out for traffic, hold hands, and stick together.
Goldfish and hamsters and white mice and even the little seed in the Styrofoam cup – they all die. So do we.
And it is still true, no matter how old you are – when you go out into the world, it is best to hold hands and stick together.
Living a balanced life – it’s all work and no play so they say. We are all engrossed and so busy with work that we sometimes forget to relax and feed our minds and our hearts with activities that make us happy. We are so busy living a life (the way we want and understand it) that we forget the passing years not knowing how to smell the flowers, how to appreciate nature at its best, how to just be. You would think that is easier said than done and it’s true that in this busy cosmos of life, you will just be surprised that you’ve grown old, with white hairs slowly showing and you ask yourself, “Where have all the years gone?” Then you dream of those things that you wanted to do when you were young.
Life is short and the untrodden paths are sometimes the best way to see what is on the other side. Your attitude towards any situation would always make a difference.
“It doesn’t matter what you say you believe – it only matters what you do.”
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