Posted in family, family life, I love weekends, journeys, life, quotes, thoughts, tagged Calayan Island, Closer to God, family life, journeys, photography, quotes, silence speaks, thoughts, thoughts and ramblings on June 19, 2015 |
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Can’t wait for tomorrow.
After almost two months of not seeing Nate, they are finally coming over tomorrow to celebrate Josef’s birthday with us. I suggested to Nissa if they could stay here overnight so she could rest, without thinking of cleaning and doing the weekend tasks in the kitchen. Sometimes, two days of rest is not enough, the weekend should be stress-free and relaxing. Anyway, I am looking forward to playing with Nate again, discovering what he has learned the past two months and seeing how fast he has grown into a very active toddler. It’s a period of discovery and exploration for our kid who’s not so little anymore.
I had a long chat with my priest son this afternoon who is attending a mission summit in Letran-Calamba. We talked of his assignment in Calayan. Time flies, a year is gone and in a few months he will be transferring to another mission. “Where to next?”, I asked and he answered “Camiguin”, another island in the north which is still a part of the Babuyanes Islands. He said it is more laid back, simple life to speak of but as equally beautiful as Calayan Island. He is happy to learn that I am still active at our Catholic Community page and still share my thoughts with the world through my blog. I laughed when he wrote back “OP Lay” meaning a Dominican lay preacher – preaching through mass media. I’ve always said even when I started this blog that if I could inspire a single soul out there, then I am fulfilled and happy. Josef is blessed, a mass intention will be offered on his birthday this Sunday. We are all blessed of course because we are always included in Lovell’s prayers. He always tells me, “bawal ma-depress at ma-stress” I know all that but sometimes life is hard and it is even harder to cope. “Stay in the grace of our Lord”. What lovely words! What was I thinking, negative thoughts should have no place in my heart.
I’ve found some amazing blogs here today – some blogs I followed, clicked a lot of posts that I liked. Inspiring words and beautiful stories that warm the heart. And here’s a quote for you today.
A blessed and happy weekend to all.
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Posted in 2015 reading challenge, book review, books, quotes, reflections, tagged Banana Yoshimoto, book review, books, journeys, life, quotes on June 11, 2015 |
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Seldom do I finish a book in one sitting but this one had me mesmerized from page one. It it my first time to read a book written by a Japanese author. I don’t even know who Banana Yoshimoto is but her words, her words get to you in a way that you could relate.
It’s a story of two good friends who both lost their mothers and how they coped with life without their treasured parents by their side. Two vastly different people living different lives but finding each other in their hour of grief through a window. Standing not quite far, looking at the silhouette of someone who has the same fascination watching the open window right across the street. That’s how the story started…so far.
One thing that I noticed about this author is her simple writing style but it moves you to feel and experience what she wants to convey. It’s like describing a good conversation between two close friends, sharing past heartaches,coping with pain and having enough confidence to share what one has been through that changed one’s perspective in life somehow. I wrote down some wonderful quotes from the book. I am not sure if you will agree with me but they speak of the simple truth on what life sometimes deals us and though it is a work of fiction, it’s like reading your own story somehow.
“But I have my life, I’m living it. It’s twisted, exhausting, uncertain, and full of guilt, but nonetheless, there’s something there.”
“When someone tells you something big, it’s like you’re taking money from them, and there’s no way it will ever go back to being the way it was. You have to take responsibility for listening.”
“Everyone knows that hidden pull is there, but we go on living our lives, pretending we don’t. We keep our gazes fixed, day after day, on the things we want to see.”
“Things look different depending on your perspective. As I see it, fighting to bridge those gaps isn’t what really matters. The most important thing is to know them inside and out, as differences, and to understand why certain people are the way they are.”
Life is not perfect. We are not perfect but we could motivate and inspire someone who is as broken as we are. It makes you realize that it is the simple things that give life’s meaning and worth.
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I meant to blog about this a few days ago but it was a busy weekend for me. And it is not because of the Mayweather-Pacquiao fight, I didn’t watch it but saw the blow-by-blow account of each round on one website complete with pictures. I just listened to the radio while the fight was going on. Funny how a few minutes after the fight, everyone was an instant critic. My news feed on FB was full of it. There were instant memes calling the former “the running man” and “best man in hugging”. They called it the fight of the century but many were disappointed about its outcome and since I know next to nothing about boxing except for occasional late telecasts of Pacquiao’s previous fights, let’s leave the analyzing to the experts and the conjectures to those unsatisfied boxing fans who felt that it was not really the fight of the century after all.
There are people I’ve yet to meet who are waiting for my path to intersect with theirs, so they can complete their own journeys.
Put that way, I am looking forward to meet those people who will complete my journey too. How lovely it would be if in the near future, you would meet more people who would make the remaining days of your life something that you would cherish and remember with fondness. They might be future friends you’ve to meet yet, family members that you haven’t seen for decades, or strangers who would put a smile on your face and make you realize your self-worth, that you are quite lovable after all and you are worthy of being a friend.
Some years ago, (back in the mid 90’s, I think) a close friend who is a nun suggested that I read James Redfield’s Celestine Prophecy. It’s a new age philosophy about how to make connections of events happening in your life. One of my priest friends even asked me why I have those books in my shelf. He also saw some titles like Embraced By The Light and Soulmates, Karma and Reincarnation. Those were the days when I was fascinated by those subjects. Going back to Redfield’s book, I remembered what he said that everything happens for a reason. He said and I quote:
“I don’t think that anything happens by coincidence… No one is here by accident… Everyone who crosses our path has a message for us. Otherwise they would have taken another path, or left earlier or later. The fact that these people are here means that they are here for some reason”…”
It may not mean the same thing as what Richard Paul Evans shared but I get the gist of what both authors were trying to say. What if I didn’t have this blog then I would not have met all these wonderful people whom I interact with everyday through their writings.
What’s your take on this? I’d love to hear from you.
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Posted in friends, friendship, inspirational, journeys, Richard Paul Evans, tagged friends, friendship, inspirational, journeys, life, quotes, Quotes from Richard Paul Evans, true friends on March 28, 2015 |
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They always say that everything happens for a reason.
I believe that too. It’s the same thing with friendship. It goes a long way, a lovely journey of discovery, a truly meaningful sharing with kindred souls. It’s hard to find true friends but when you find them, they are more valuable than gold. I treasure the days that I share with my friends. Some are there to make me laugh and make me realize that it is okay to cry, cleanse our eyes and hearts with all the hurts and pain. Some are there just to listen, no words needed but a ready shoulder and loving arms to make you feel you are truly worthy of being a friend. Some are there to give advice and make you see the truth no matter how painful it is to face. Some are there for a long time, guiding you, lifting you up, rejoicing with you in your triumphs and empathizing with you when you are down. Some are there to make you smile and make the day worthwhile.
What a wonderful thing friendship is. What a wonderful world friendship brings. And it’s true, “what a difference having a friend makes”.
P.S. For those friends I met through this blog, I could not thank you enough. You made a difference in my life.
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Posted in guilty pleasures, journeys, tagged blogging, books, Closer to God, guilty pleasures, journeys, Lent 2015, quotes, silence speaks on March 27, 2015 |
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Hi everyone! How have you been? It’s been a while and there is no valid reason neglecting this blog except that I was just busy. It’s Holy Week next week so I have to finish everything (gardening included) so I could at least spend it in quiet reflection and visit some churches for our annual Visita Iglesia. Hopefully, Josef and I could do the Manila loop on Holy Thursday. I wish mom is strong enough to join us in the Stations of the Cross. I love visiting churches nearby during the season of Lent but I haven’t ventured in the churches of Manila yet We have done the Rizal area as far as Morong and Cardona and several towns in Laguna. Rizal province and Laguna have the most beautiful century old churches in the Eastern loop, well-preserved and they have lovely facades. One time, we tried the churches in Marikina City, Josef was driving and we got lost along the way. Marikina has a lot of one-way streets and it was quite confusing. Hopefully, we could do it again and I suggested if we could just take a commute since most churches in Manila are near each other.
I am catching up on my reading. All the Light We Cannot See is my first book of Anthony Doerr. It’s Goodreads’ choice 2014 winner. It is a historical fiction set during World War II, a wonderful and moving account on the lives of two teenagers, a blind girl from France and a German orphan boy who grew up in an industrial and mining town in Germany. I love reading about WW II, be it fiction or a true account of what happened. My parents have their own personal account of it when the Philippines was occupied by the Japanese. The book is another facet of history as told by Doerr. I love Markus Zusak’s The Book Thief (read it twice actually) and almost all the books of Leon Uris about the war in Poland and what life was like in Ireland during the Industrial Revolution, subjects that keep me awake for hours until my eyes can no longer decipher the words. Here are some interesting quotes from the book. I jot them down as I read them.
“Open your eyes and see what you can with them before they close forever.”
“We rise again in the grass. In the flowers. In songs.”
“I have been feeling very clearheaded lately and what I want to write about today is the sea. It contains so many colors. Silver at dawn, green at noon, dark blue in the evening. Sometimes it looks almost red. Or it will turn the color of old coins. Right now the shadows of clouds are dragging across it, and patches of sunlight are touching down everywhere. White strings of gulls drag over it like beads.
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“Life, with its rules, its obligations, and its freedoms, is like a sonnet: You’re given the form, but you have to write the sonnet yourself.” – Madeleine L’Engle
I started reading it two nights ago and it got me hooked. Reading YA is sometimes a joy….the ingredients are all there, science fiction, fantasy, children’s literature. I wonder why I only found it only now when it was published as early as 1962. Would also love to see the film adaptation of A Wrinkle in Time. I still have few more pages to read.
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