I’ve never been good at following “how to’s” unless it’s a complicated recipe that I need to experiment on. Sure, sometimes they make life easier but it is different from following rules that you have set yourself to do. The step-by-step-numbered rules bore me. I wonder if I am alone in this because sometimes I do encounter blog posts like how to learn to be happy or how to be a good writer or how to make your blog more popular(taken from the point of view of the author of course) but in real life we each have certain criteria and values that we wish to meet that we think assure us of happiness and success. It is like reading a highly recommended book but you find it boring. Short of saying “to each his own” we have our way of coping and facing what is in front of us. The way you look at things probably depends on how you view life itself. As they always say, you could see a glass half-full or half-empty. It does not matter whether you’re 30 or 50, maturity comes not in the number you add to your age but in the richness of experience you encounter making you grow and learn a little more.
Now and then, I link some posts at Facebook just to share with some friends who just want to click it and read. I was never sold to the idea though of linking it to the app NetworkedBlogs. Although WordPress is public too, it has a different set of writers/bloggers/readers and compared to Facebook which is so noisy, I feel safe at WordPress. Getting across your message to people who love the written words as you do is vastly different from seeing selfies and pictures that speak of what one had for breakfast to where they had dinner all in the same day. My wall and timeline are set to friends only and I don’t allow my updates to be made public. There are things that you don’t normally share in cyberspace.
The other day, I finally decided to export my blog and copy it to my external hard drive. It is quite scary to lose all of the 1,597 posts and all the five years of blogging coming to naught so I followed the advice of a blogger friend, looked at the tools and downloaded export file. I’d like to do the same with my other three blogs. If you haven’t done it yet, I also suggest you do, for safety.
A friend once said that blogging has become a way of life, do you agree?
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It takes time
for you to see the light,
when you have been too long
walking in the dark.
It takes time
what is in front of you
when your eyes are riveted
to the farthest view.
It takes time to appreciate
what love really is
when you ignore the whispers
of your heart.
Take a moment to see -
the feel of a cold morning
on your face,
the beauty of the dawn,
the wonder of a sunrise
breaking on the horizon.
Take a moment to feel -
the innocent kiss of a child
the warm embrace
the tight hugs.
For they speak to you
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I don’t normally blog about daily news and happenings here in our country except for occasional posts on some politicians that I just can’t tolerate and the 42 days that I watched the daily hearings with mom when our former Chief Justice Renato Corona was impeached. I did a daily post on that until the last day. This morning, I was listening to the AM news and this caught my attention. A Metro Manila Development Authority traffic constable was assaulted by a guy driving a Ghibli Maserati. The traffic enforcer accosted the driver when he was trying to do a left-turn in one of the major streets in Quezon City. The motorist then went straight ahead but made a U-turn, went to the traffic enforcer’s post, and gave him the dirty finger at the same time snatching his cellphone and punching him on the nose three times while the car was cruising on auto pilot. He held him by his uniform and managed to drag him at least 10 meters from his post. The enforcer also recalled that the driver removed his grey-blue shirt and threw it at him so he could wipe his bloodied face.
Does having a multi-million car in your possession gives you the right to disobey traffic rules and ignore a man in uniform? Does being rich makes you untouchable that you can do all you want when you are out on the streets? MMDA Chairman Tolentino was fuming mad when he learned about this and with the help of the dealer of Maserati cars here in Metro Manila, they were able to trace the name of the car owner/motorist. According to reports, there are only two buyers/owners of such luxury sports cars so late this afternoon, they were able to zero in on the man. Come to think of it, his car doesn’t even have a car plate number. There were several instances before very similar to this one, some of them even taking out their guns to instill fear on the hapless traffic enforcers.
Where is this world coming to? I hate to think that when money speaks (and I include our corrupt politicians here), good manners and values go to the dogs. I am not generalizing since there are more moneyed individuals who help our economy grow. I am referring to those who lose their values when they display what money can do for them. They equate money with power. What they don’t know is, they could not bring it to their graves.
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Posted in family, family life, journeys, life, Philippines, photography, rainy days, ramblings, tagged adventures, family life, journeys, life, Nate, photography, silence speaks on November 15, 2014 |
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I’ve been awake since 2:30am. Crazy, isn’t it? I had a shuteye though this afternoon. It rained early this morning but Josef and I did a quick trip to the wet market despite the rain. I was lucky to find a fresh bundle of young garlic. What a joy, just perfect for a rainy day. I’ve been on the lookout for this ever since I tasted it a few months ago at my son-in-law’s house. Although it is more expensive than the matured ones, it is best mixed with soup, a simple recipe of Chinese sotanghon and ground pork. The nutty flavor of the sliced young garlic is just so yummy I wish a bought a kilo instead of just a little bundle. You slice it thinly as you would an onion, sauté it with celery stalk and pork, adding a little salt and pepper then the sotanghon last. It’s best while it’s hot.
A productive day for arranging books , transferring some notes to my journal, blogging about Nate’s trip to Siquijor and Dumaguete, a little gardening this afternoon, what more could one ask, squeezing a little of everything in one day.
I was looking at the pictures that Nissa sent thru Viber earlier and I was thrilled to see our little Nate enjoying his four-day vacation with his mom and dad. He must be wondering where they were, different places, lovely scenery, lots of swimming to boot and a wide playground where he could roam around. This particular picture made me smile, I could imagine that hammock swaying gently through the breeze. What an adventure for a two-year old boy.
It must be fun to just be here, with nary a thought of anything but the joy of the moment, the touch of the sand on your toes and the sound of the ocean waves nearby.
Have you ever tried reacquainting yourself with children’s books? I did while I was covering Nate’s books this afternoon. Another weird thing to do but an enjoyable one. I am into e-books again. Let me correct that, I am alternating reading my loot last August and some short stories in between. I want to reread another favorite since I was in college. A Tree Grows In Brooklyn, published in 1943 and was written by Betty Smith. Have you read it?
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Posted in blessings, family, family life, guilty pleasures, Happiness, journeys, ramblings, silence speaks, tagged blogging, Closer to God, Faith, family life, guilty pleasures, journeys, silence speaks, thoughts and ramblings on November 9, 2014 |
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One thing great about unplanned meeting is that, it almost always pushes through unlike other times when you have anticipated and looked forward to it only to find that it was just that – a plan. You feel disappointed. Last Friday was one of those spur of the moment decisions to have lunch with the kids. Since it was a Friday and Josef was still on vacation leave so off we went to Makati to meet Nissa during her lunch break. She needs a xerox copy of Nate’s birth certificate for their flight on Tuesday so I have a perfect excuse to tag along. We had lunch at Cafe France. I enjoyed looking at their display of French bread, croissants, pastries and cookies. My busy mind was at work the whole time I looked at the arrangement on their shelves. I was thinking, “I’ll bake my own Vienna loaf or sourdough one of these days.” I was pleasantly surprised when Nissa told me that it used to be called Deli France and she meant my favorite hangout with some friends years and years ago. Have I grown that old that I never noticed that it has changed its name all these years or have I become such a recluse, often afraid to go out alone?
I used to attend high school reunions on a regular basis but then even that has lost its magic. Seeing my former classmates on Facebook is now enough for me. I have my group now, mostly members of our Catholic page where I am an admin. They are OFWs (overseas Filipino workers) who make sacrifices being away to earn a few dollars to support their family back home. When they go home for vacation, some of them drop by to see me and we usually have long chats on how life is away from one’s family. I know, I always tell them, I was a OFW wife for more than twenty years. I know what one feels when you are faced with a gargantuan task of raising a family alone while at the same time trying to balance a day job. Maybe, I was luckier than most to have found reliable minders to my kids back then.
Things do not always end the way you planned. Sometimes, there is a greater force you have no control of. These are those things that make you stronger in faith that you will get through it all. The richness of life does not always come from good things thrown your way, most of it comes from your experience of what pain is all about and how you cope with it. You learn and you learn well. When the journey becomes a perilous path of uncertainty, you pray hard for guidance and God never disappoints.
On a lighter note, I am quite happy that we have finished putting some Christmas decor. Most are recycled and favorite pieces over the years. I took advantage of Josef being home to help me hang the trimmings. I am still thinking of putting Christmas lights on the newly trimmed tree in our garden. We have this kind of pine tree that I can’t identify planted near our little pond and I think it would be perfect for that holiday touch.
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Posted in blogging, guilty pleasures, life, ramblings, silence speaks, thoughts, tagged John Green, journeys, life, Richard Clayderman, silence speaks, thoughts and ramblings on October 21, 2014 |
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I am lost.
I am lost in a sea of words that will never get to be seen in print. I struggle with the thought on how I will string the words and make a beautiful line or two. Not inspired? But I am. Busy? Not so much now. Lazy? Most likely. Come to think of it, I visit WordPress every day just to be updated with posts from online friends that I follow. I sometimes make comments but I still could not find the “like button” inside a post, not just mine but all posts that I visit. It is forever “loading”. You can’t see me liking your posts, rest assured though that I read them and I do sometimes get inspired by your words.
It’s a peaceful night.
I watched YouTube last night but it took so long to load (hopeless internet connection) so my son suggested that I sleep early and wake up early too to catch up on everything. I wonder why I had this sudden craving for cheese pimiento spread paired with a crunchy slice of Vienna bread. Since I don’t know how to make one, I have to find it on YouTube. Such a simple thing to do but I never tried it before. Talk about simple things that make one smile.
I hear the music.
Gosh, this is even crazier than before, it’s 1:55am and I should be in deep slumber but I am wide awake. The quarter moon and a sprinkling of stars are clearly visible from my window. It’s a beautiful sight and I am transported to another world while I listen to Richard Clayderman’s instrumental music. I have several CDs of Richard but it is nice to listen on YouTube when the internet connection is good. Another favorite is Kenny G. I could listen all morning to their music and not get bored. Listening to Kenny G. always reminds me of the movie Dying Young and as always I can relate to the whole story, from the point of view of someone who has to struggle with health issues. I was lucky enough to find the book on a sale bin at Diplomat. The book was written by Marti Leimbach. I love the movie adaptation better though. Sorry Marti, you made me cry but not as much as Victor and Hillary did.
Oh, it’s John Green!
Last weekend, Nissa brought her boxed set of John Green books which her sis-in-law gave her on her birthday last month. I am not a fan of YA books. So far, the only John Green book that I read was The Fault In Our Stars and even wrote a short review at Goodreads. I am giving these a go as soon as I find time to buy a plastic cover at NBS. Nissa never goes without covering her books first before reading. Here are the titles included in the set:
- Looking for Alaska
- An Abundance of Katherines
- Paper Towns
- Will Grayson, Will Grayson
- The Fault In Our Stars
Are you a John Green fan? Join me in another reading marathon. By the way, Richard is playing the song Feelings now.
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