Posted in blog update, blogging, guilty pleasures, journeys, life, tagged blogging, journeys, life, silence speaks, thoughts and ramblings on March 21, 2017|
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Some people and bloggers say that they don’t really mind if their blogs are here but stay silent in cyber space. I do. I mean, one of the reasons why we share our thoughts is to be recognized as bloggers too, right? Of course it is a welcome bonus that our blogs could be popular on their own.
I have just reached 460,000 plus visits a while ago. For me that is an achievement for this humble blog. I must admit that it is quite hard to reach a number that you would feel comfortable with, if your blog posts are being read. A year of blogging would not even yield a thousand visits if people don’t read your blog and other bloggers don’t visit it and make comments. I think the idea of blogging is to share what you are passionate about, be it simple recipes that you do on your own, photos of places you’ve been to, things you love to write about and such other things that you want to share with other people. I could not exactly remember when the button Like on WordPress was introduced but it a lovely way of showing how one is attracted and like a particular post. When I joined the Post A Day Challenge in the year 2011, I used to get from 300-400 visits a day but that has waned over the years. Perhaps fellow bloggers and visitors have gotten tired visiting this blog. I can no longer see those who used to be active in posting too. Along the way, their blog has stopped. I miss them.
One feels glad when one’s blog is noticed by other bloggers. I am not one those who promote books (I am not an author) and those who have thousands of followers in their midst. I write about the daily happenings in my life, the illness I went through back in 2009, the journey of getting well and feeling normal too. I am grateful for those days that lots of friends prayed for me and empathized with me. I am grateful for those days that I was strong enough to face everything although it was a hard journey to go through. I am grateful for my family and relatives who were at my side during those days of recuperating and getting well.
There are so many blogs that I come across about how to blog. There are many blogs that tell you how to be a successful blogger. I think it all depends on what we want to share with the world. If our blog is public, every one could read it. There are no sure “how to’s” on how your blog would be noticed, much less when you are blogging on a free platform just like me.
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Posted in blogging, journeys, life, literature and Fiction, tagged A Man Called Ove, blogging, guilty pleasures, journeys, life, reading, silence speaks on March 2, 2017|
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This is my 3rd blog post for this month. Hopefully I would be able to make one every day. Wishful thinking so to speak.
For the past month and the past few days, my blog post Another Year To Be Thankful For has been on my most read blog, I don’t know why. Maybe it got stuck there for a time but it earned the usual number of visits. It was my birthday post more than three years ago. Just a simple thank you to all those who made my birthday a lovely one.
I am about to finish the book A Man Called Ove. It is the story of a retired man who is disgruntled about life in general. He could be your typical grandfather or your neighbor.Deep within with his close friends and loved ones, he is a softie.I found out that it was adapted into a movie but I am not sure if it is as good as the book. I think this is one of my favorite books for this challenge, so far that is. I may encounter more along the way but this book is so good. What an excellent writing a different kind of reading altogether. The author is Fredrik Backman from Stockholm, Sweden. The book is one of Sweden’s most popular literary exports. Find out for yourself, if you haven’t read it yet.
Yesterday, we celebrated Ash Wednesday. Went to mass early for the imposition of the ashes. It was a day of fasting and abstinence for those reaching 14 to 59 and a day of abstinence beyond that. Ash Wednesday is the beginning of Lent in the Catholic church’s liturgical calendar. My co-admins and I are busy at the Catholic page which we maintain at Facebook. These are those times that we could share lots of reflections, news and anything about Catholicism.
Thank you WordPress for the nice numbers. Thank you blogger friends for always commenting and liking my posts. Love you all.
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All along I thought it was a cash dispenser some banks usually put up to make withdrawing money or depositing to an account as easy as ABC. Being a banker for more than twenty years, those words are quite familiar.
Now it carries a different meaning. Some people especially those who use social medial are fond of writing ATM instead of the usual words “at the moment”. The abbreviations are probably alright when you are so busy enough that you use abbreviated words like these but on social media? Again, I have nothing against those who use them constantly in their shout outs. It must be the fad nowadays and I am out of it. But using ATM while you are busy updating your Facebook account of some photos you probably took a few hours ago does not jibe well I guess. Unless of course you are in a restaurant eating your lunch or on a beach delighting in the sun. Could you say “at the moment” while you are busy swimming? It is like texting, some people use so many shortened words.
Going along with words just to say that you are “in” sometimes makes it a little funny. “At the moment, I am typing this post” would sound better I guess. I won’t say I am reading ATM while doing the typing, I cannot do that. Here comes another word that is as familiar.
We always do this to save on time, multitask I mean. Honestly though, we can do things fast one after the other but not at the same time unless maybe you are cooking and it needs to boil for a little while or having your dirty clothes in the washing machine while cleaning. I am familiar with multitasking because I do it all the time. For me, household chores are easier that way. I sweep the yard while cooking or I sweep the floor while our overhead tank is being filled.
At the moment I am typing this blog post and boiling water for coffee at the same time. It’s multitasking alright.
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Yes, we always say “that Facebook”as if it has no relevance in our lives.
My Facebook account is as old as my blog if not older by a few months. I used to blog before at Friendster then at Multiply. Those two eventually closed. I had good friends at my Multiply site and we used to have healthy exchanges of ideas. A simple blog would garner so many likes and comments even if I only had more than a hundred friends there.
Here comes Facebook. Occasionally, I link my blog post at Facebook. It is quite easy to get in touch with your friends and long -lost relatives at the site. You can even befriend those people you have lost touch with a couple of decades ago. One thing though that I don’t like about it is that, it has become a smorgasbord of news and updates that sometimes are not relevant at all. Just for the sake of having something you could make as shout out or maybe just to update your site. There are now plenty of social media used in the internet but I only have three – Facebook, Twitter and of course WordPress.
Lately since the start of the presidential campaign last year, Facebook has become the source of ugly insults, maligning each of the candidates so to speak. Until now trolls are active in posting things that destroys the credibility of the elected officials of the land. It’s ugly and most of those posts have become viral. It is so easy to destroy a political enemy though this medium.
One good thing is you get to see the birthdays of each and every one of your friends. Never mind that you are reminded of those dates daily and sometimes you are obliged to greet them even if you are not so sincere to do so. Haha, they must think that you know all their birthdays. You also get to see their updates. You are even updated with a newly acquired cat or a new born puppy. You get to see all their pictures from the youngest member of the family to the oldest. Never mind if the pictures sometimes are so blurred that they use those apps on Facebook to make them clear and flawless. And you are a part of each birthday celebration that they have and every traveled places that they go to. Nice you say? Sometimes it is annoying. Unless of course someone is a true and a close friend of yours that you don’t need to be reminded of his/her special day.
Ah, Facebook where are we going?
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Posted in blog update, blogging, Goodreads, literature and Fiction, reading, tagged blog update, blogging, books, journeys, life, reading on February 16, 2017|
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I know, I know. I am trying to get into the mood of writing a blog post again. It’s really been a while. I am excited to get back but when you haven’t written something for quite a long time, its hard to get back all over again. And I really mean one week without a post is like a month for me.
I was again engrossed reading instead. Quiet days, quiet nights without the internet. Opps, one can do it but I miss writing my thoughts here. Have I told you that I have advanced reading 17 books? Yes, I have finished reading 35 books in all as of today, a little over 23% of my committed 150 book reads, It is nice to read a series again for a change. I could not find the latest books though. I tried looking for them online but I could not find them. Susan Rodgers is one of my favorites now. I am planning to reread the saga of Diana Gabaldon. I have several books of hers, some I haven’t started yet. Maybe one of these days I will.
Went back for more laboratory tests. I have to consult my doctor in a week. My blood sugar level has significantly gone down but I still have high blood pressure. Hopefully, this would correct after I have taken several medications. It’s quite hard when you are not 100% fit to do the daily chores you have to meet at home.
I miss blogging, who doesn’t? It’s wonderful to know that slowly my number of followers is building up and my stats is on a steady climb. I must admit that when you don’t blog regularly, you also lose some friends who follow your blog. Sorry folks, same old sour grapes all over again. You are all important to me.
This coming Saturday, there is another reunion for our old buddies at the bank where I used to work. Most of us have left and retired but some are still working there. I miss them although we get in touch through social media. It’s a bit different when you see each other personally and make “kumustahans”.
Getting back in, quite a hard task really.
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Posted in 2017, blog update, blogging, books, journeys, life, reading, writing, tagged blogging, books, guilty pleasures, journeys, life, reading, silence speaks on January 1, 2017|
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Mulling over what 2017 holds in store. It’s a season of hope and new beginnings. A new leaf in the calendar, a blank page that needs to be filled with experiences, journeys and daily happenings in one’s life. There is something nice about a new beginning. You are excited to make it a success somehow, you are excited to learn more about life itself and more excited to traverse an unknown journey with hope and faith in the Almighty.
Time was when a new year is filled with resolutions so to speak. Now I call them goals in life, those small achievable things that make the journey wonderful – the beauty of everything simple. the abundance of blessings one receives day-to-day, the fulfillment of a dream.
I vow to read more books this year, maybe increase the previous 123 books I managed to finish on Goodreads’ reading challenge for 2016. Hopefully, I’ll make it to the 150 mark. I actually started reading an hour after we met the new year last night. Travelling Light by Tov Jansson is a collection of several stories that cover so many subjects. I am just on the first few chapters of the book but I guess I would enjoy it. I wish I could blog every day just like before, never mind if they’ll just be a few lines without photos. The richness of a simple story depends on how it is presented, whether one’s target audience is appreciative enough. Hopefully this post would be the start.
I love to share with you a lovely quote from Langston Hughes’ Dreams. This has inspired me through the years.
Hold onto dreams
For if dreams die
Life is like a broken-winged bird
That cannot fly.
More dreams to hold. Welcome 2017 🙂 🙂 🙂
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Posted in blessings, blog update, blogging, family, family life, journeys, life, my blogging journey, thoughts and ramblings, tagged blogging, family life, journeys, New Year 2017, reflections, silence speaks, thoughts and ramblings, year-end blog 2016 on December 28, 2016|
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As all things go, there is an end to everything – days, months and years included. And yes, 2016 is about to end and we think of those things we did this year, old and new friends we met, family togetherness, places we dreamed of visiting, lessons learned, hours wasted on senseless thoughts (sometimes) and all the other things that make life and living worthwhile.
It’s been a quiet year for us except those times we went out as a family to celebrate birthdays and those times we had visitors at home to celebrate with us too. It is always nice to get in touch with friends, sharing meals together and being happy just exchanging news and ideas. It is always nice to be with the whole family celebrating togetherness no matter how simple it is. We do find meaning in the ordinary things in our lives, one has to look back, discern, and admire what is before us. We find meaning in our brokenness, those times when we felt so down and everyone cared, we are just grateful for that.
Do you make new year’s resolution? I’ve never been good at keeping one. They always get broken one way or another. So I dream, make some of it into reality and just enjoy what is in store. The days are not always happy, some are like memories blurred at the edges, some are like a closed book so pleasant to discover, some are lovely thoughts waiting to be shared.
Blogging has become one major step to sharing with online friends. It is such pure heaven to meet fellow bloggers who share their lives, their hobbies, their families and their precious photos and memories. Blogging has become a daily exercise that I look forward to, reshaping my views with the world outside. Blogging has become a pleasant tool for friendship. I’ve finally reached more than 2,000 followers including my 90 followers linked at Twitter. Isn’t it nice that every day, the blog stats increase a little more than before? It’s close to 445,000 views now. I made a total of 157 blog posts this year, add maybe two or three more before the year ends. The wonder of blogging. May I just thank you all for sharing with me through my blogs and yours? Thank you, thank you so much.
May the next year be a pleasant, happy and fruitful one for all of us. Happy 2017 guys.
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