Posted in blogging, gardening, gardens, life, tagged 100th post, blogging, gardening, gardening blog, gardens, life on April 18, 2017|
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I just received this message from WordPress a few minutes ago with this logo:
“Congratulations on writing 100 posts on Gardens and Empty Spaces!”
Haha, it’s my 100th blog post on my other blog Gardens and Empty Spaces. I have long neglected this blog because for the last six months I haven’t taken pictures of my garden until today. I have to use my tab to take photos. I am glad that for every milestone in blogging, WordPress has always a reminder so we won’t forget.
Come visit me there if you have time. Would love to update it at least once a month.
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Posted in blogging, book review, guilty pleasures, journeys, tagged blogging, book review, books, Goodreads' 2017 reading challenge, journeys, literature and Fiction, thoughts on April 16, 2017|
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Whether we admit it or not, most of us live our lives on autopilot. We wake at the same hour, go to the same place of work or worship, talk to the same people, eat at the same restaurants, even watch the same TV show….
But sometimes the evolving terrain of life requires us to evolve with it. When those times come, we usually find ourselves quivering on the
The Mistletoe Secret
precipice of change as long as we can, because no one wants to dive into the ravine of uncertainty. No one. Only when the pain of being becomes too much do we close our eyes and leap.
Thus begins the first chapter of Richard Paul Evans’ The Mistletoe Secret. Another book to cherish. It’s my 75th book on Goodreads’ 2017 Reading Challenge. I can relate to this book because the story is about a blogger who feels so alone and lonely and she writes what she feels through a blog. She thought no one cares but there was someone out there who continued to read her blog. This is the premise of the book until the guy decided to look for that blogger and you guess it right…there is a happy ever after, but of course. The story line is simple but it has depth of emotions and feelings. It’s been a long time since I read a book by Richard Paul Evans. His writing style is not that complicated but I love how he delves into life in general and relationships in particular. It’s what I like about RPE’s writing.
I am halfway through my committed books to read for this year, 150 in all. One thing with a new book is that you can’t help but smell the pages and no dog-ears please. Use a book marker. I started reading a few excerpts of Mary Oliver’s Upstream when it was published late last year but now that I have my copy, I will enjoy reading her essays.
What have you read lately?
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Can’t really pass this up. Late this morning I received a message from WordPress with the familiar logo which is an upward spike. Gosh, I have to take a look at my stats right there and then. Yesterday it was close enough to 300 views then as of the moment, I have 250 on my dashboard.
Your blog, DREAMS AND ESCAPES, appears to be getting more traffic than usual! 34 hourly views – 8 hourly views on average
A spike in your stats
Most of the viewers are from the Philippines. They probably took note of the churches we have visited before during our annual Visita Iglesia. It’s been two years now since we did our fourteen stations prayers and readings at our Parish in town. Before we did the eastern loop of the Laguna towns, the province of Rizal, some churches in Quezon City and Marikina City. Tradition is that we should visit at least 7 churches in one day and do two stations of the cross in one church. Tonight there is an early celebration of Easter Vigil with Psalm readings and probably baptism of Catholic converts too.
Oh well, I am just glad for the upward spike on my stats.
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Today is Holy Monday and everything seems so quiet. Even our dog Noki, just slept in the corner of our kitchen. Our three kittens though keep exploring around the place, mostly at the garden and some of the time inside the house. It’s a good thing they never venture to the living room to scratch our sala set. I am always on the lookout, they might discover it soon and then bam, goes our upholstered furniture.
I reviewed my earlier posts, back in 2011 and 2012 when I was so active participating in the weekly photo challenge where WordPress usually give a word that would define the photos you want to upload. Those same shots somehow filled up my free space in record time. Back in those days too, they usually give some feedback on one’s latest post. I wonder why the last few years, it is no longer done. I rather liked it that way. Seemed like they also read those earlier blog posts to make even a one-word comment. It was quite rewarding that they used to do that.
It’s mom’s 88th birthday come April 20. I wonder if my brother would fetch her before the day. At times, she is beginning to be forgetful and her right ear has gone deaf. She has never adjusted to a hearing aid many years ago. She said that she kept hearing so many sounds that she could not understand. I wonder how she could still laugh and shouts when she watches her favorite programs on TV. She only watches one channel. I am not much into TV watching so sometimes she likes the sound quiet and low. When I go out I usually write where I am going so she would not complain. We could not talk much the way we used to because she could understand everything. Either you gesture with actions or make your voice a little louder for her to hear. She plays solitaire every day, a card game she is so fond of.
We talk of getting old. That’s where we will all go someday. I think there is a big difference between getting old and growing older. When you get old, you just add a number to your name but when you grow old, you acquire wisdom with age. Life deals us circumstances beyond our control but as we grow older, we become wiser too. Experience always teaches us something. Either we learn a lesson or it falls on the wayside.
What was your Monday like?
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Posted in blog update, blogging, books, city gardening, life, literature and Fiction, tagged blogging, Close to Nature, journeys, Lang leav, life, Mary Oliver, poems, silence speaks, thoughts on April 6, 2017|
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PAGASA has finally declared officially yesterday that we are now into summer. They say that we really don’t have summer because we only have two seasons of the year, the dry and the wet. People got used though to calling the dry days and months summer here. It would lasts until probably the last week of May when thunderstorms in the afternoon are regular occurrence. It is not yet that hot within the day but there are almost no clouds in the sky. For those of us who love the beach, it’s time for that much-needed dip. Just don’t forget to have sunblock in your bag. Days would be longer than nights.
Finally too, I am almost done with my gardening job – trimming the grass, weeding and replanting some of my ornamental plants. I haven’t touched anything outside our perimeter wall yet but I guess, the weeds outside our fence need to be uprooted too. They are growing tall and unmanageable. Our Santan plants need trimming too. That would have to be postponed for a while because they are presently in bloom. I love those red flowers, they are lovely under the sun.
I haven’t blogged for two days but I noticed the decline in my views yesterday. It’s down to a little over a hundred compared to the previous five days before that where it reached more than two hundred a day. I remember that those times when I blogged every day were the same days that my stats went up. Really, we are only good as our last post although I noticed that there are some posts that always stay at the top. I have some favorites but they are no longer viewed now. I guess participating in writing one post a day really helps. Back in 2011, I did that but it was never repeated. It was kind of taxing thinking of what to write about every day for the entire year. Maybe in the future I’ll do it again.
I’ve put aside reading for the last three days but I am trying to catch up again with Lang Leav’s poems and Mary Oliver’s thoughts mixed with my fiction books. It is always nice to get to know other people’s thoughts and dreams. I am inspired by their writings. Sometimes I wonder where they get all the inspirations to write those lovely texts. I am envious. I’ve been an admirer of Mary Oliver for so long but I only have two of her books. A friend bought me a copy of Upstream, (my 3rd one) her latest but we haven’t seen each other yet. I read the reviews of the book, read some excerpts from it and I am really looking forward to have that book on hand. I follow her on Facebook that is why I am updated. I like almost all of her poems but this one is a favorite. Would love to share it you. It’s called Wild Geese.
“You do not have to be good.
You do not have to walk on your knees
for a hundred miles through the desert repenting.
You only have to let the soft animal of your body
love what it loves.
Tell me about despair, yours, and I will tell you mine.
Meanwhile the world goes on.
Meanwhile the sun and the clear pebbles of the rain
are moving across the landscapes,
over the prairies and the deep trees,
the mountains and the rivers.
Meanwhile the wild geese, high in the clean blue air,
are heading home again.
Whoever you are, no matter how lonely,
the world offers itself to your imagination,
calls to you like the wild geese, harsh and exciting
over and over announcing your place
in the family of things.”
It is summer now, let me correct that, it’s the beginning of the dry season here. Would just love to enjoy the sun and reading.
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Posted in blog update, blogging, life, thoughts, tagged a bit of myself, blogging, journeys, life, silence speaks, thoughts and ramblings on April 3, 2017|
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Sometimes I think I am sharing too much in cyberspace.
Probably you would say, “me too”. This thing called blogging has taken up a lot of my time sometimes I wonder if other still read my posts. Are we all too busy to blog, too lazy to comment, too indifferent to click like or just enjoy reading posts from other bloggers? We have those times when the screen in front of us remains a blank for so long while we are thinking of what to share and to blog about. There are times when we all get too enthusiastic to write about the happenings in our lives. Are we sharing too much?
What do you think?
As I have said a long time ago, this blog started as a sort of catharsis for me when I was taken ill almost eight years ago. I needed an outlet to write my thoughts and share my journey. It helped me a lot during those sleepless nights and endless laboratory tests and doctor visits. It is a diary that was published online. I am glad of those friends who still follow me until today, fellow bloggers that I follow too and the new ones who recently found my blogs (yes I have five but not all of them are updated). I am more inclined to see photos of different places and people shared about by other bloggers. I am not fond of selfies though. I’d rather post photos of my garden blooms or my family members.
I take joy in reminiscing, going back to old times and places that made me laugh. Life is sometimes full of angst that we have to bear so I’ll choose to remember the happy times, those blessed days that made me smile and remember things with fondness, the days that laughter and happiness reign in the heart.
So far for Dreams and Escapes, I’ve written 1,955 posts excluding this one. I am growing old with this blog but I like how it is turning out.
My question remains, are we sharing too much?
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I spent the morning cleaning up e-mails on my Yahoo mails. Most of them (in thousands) are comments and like notifications from WordPress. I decided to change my Discussion Setting so I won’t have to be notified thru e-mail when I get likes and comments from the site, after all, WordPress has its own notifications once you receive the former. For new posts of the blogs I follow, I have my reader feed which is always up to date with them. It was quite hard to delete each page of the e-mails since I receive other e-mails too aside from the ones at WordPress so I just chose which to delete.
It’s the same thing with Facebook which is lot busier than my blogs at WordPress. Facebook is updated all the time in minutes and in seconds even. My reader feed is full of notifications sometimes. Unlike WordPress, I get a summary of postings made at Facebook. I could no longer remember how it was done before when I opened my account at the site. Here’s the funny thing, I have to retrieve my Yahoo account through my cellphones. I can’t remember I’ve been using the old password to log in. My goodness, I have changed it last December (senior moments to the max). Good thing though I’ve written all my passwords except those I frequently use every day. I haven’t logged in to may Yahoo account close to three months now, yes, until today. Just imagine!
Wow, WordPress has changed the colors of its buttons again. I can now see a bright red one on Publish and when you click the Dashboard, it is all red too. Sometimes you just can’t keep up. I prefer using the old thing as against the new buttons for adding a blog. It is hard to edit the new one. Believe me, sometimes no matter how careful you are in typing, there are always missed words or words which are not supposed to be there at all. Editing one’s post is a bit hard too because all along you thought you have typed the correct word but you have substituted it with new ones. There is always a reminder in the proofreading box that you are not supposed to use passive words which I think is inevitable.
I have finally updated my newest blog (it’s more than a year now) this morning. I usually have photos and a bit of text there. Please visit it if you have time. It’s called Dreams Never End.
How is your blogging adventure?
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