Lately I’ve been thinking about it, that one word …..journeys!
The last few days, I’ve kept in touched with friends, some are former officemates, some I’ve met at our Catholic page on Facebook where I am one of the admins, some are friends I’ve previously met online. We talked about our families, our dreams and life itself.
Journeys.
For some, it may mean going to some places they’ve never been to, exploring, getting to know people. But I am talking about those days that we travel life’s highways. We meet people along the way, gain and learn lessons from our experiences. We don’t always travel on life’s paved roads, most of the time we encounter rough and unpaved, unknown and narrow ones. We move on, trying to reach our destinations.
My friends and I talked of growing old and getting older. It’s not that we wish to alter what life deals us but we are in agreement that we don’t really want to reach that age where we get dependent on our kids to take care of us. Here in our country, it’s in our culture that we take care of our olds until they leave this earth. Home care, stay-in facilities and assisted living are really not great options for us. Besides, those are quite unaffordable for an average families like us.
Journeys.
We sometimes get lost but in the process we discover beautiful paths. Let’s enjoy every moment of the journey. Let’s be bold enough to face those unexpected trails and thorny paths. Let us not focus on how far we still have to go before we reach our destinations. Let’s take time to smell the flowers along the way.
I’m sniffing, Arlene. Wait, I’m not smelling flowers; I’ve got a head cold. I agree with you about enjoying the journey of life.
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Thanks Anne. I am smiling here. I hope you get better soon 🙂
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Great advice Arlene! We need to enjoy the journey!
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Thanks Ribana 💓
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Nice philosophy
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Thanks Derrick 🌝💓🥰
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It’s a very positive way to look at something that none of us can do anything about. We have to use the wisdom of our experience to help us as we grow older.
Best wishes, Pete.
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That is so true Pete. I was reading one of Mary Oliver’s books last night, her poems are all about nature and her daily experiences about it. I was inspired. 🥰
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Great post Arlene.
I have learned to enjoy everyday of life. I’ve met some friends on wp and two of them passed away. One of cancer the other of a heart condition. It made me understand more that just enjoying everyday one moment at a time is very important.
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That’s sad More. Yes, there is always something we should enjoy in our everyday lives.
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That is very true
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It’s easy to forget about the beauty of life sometimes, especially with the daily grind of commuting (Manila in particular). I do love a good journey, especially when there is a window to look out of.
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Oh yes, I miss those times when we used to go home to the province. One can look at the green fields along the way and one can enjoy the simple life there.
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It’s two hours to get to Dasmarinas from Manila these days. I enjoyed the trip around Taal volcano (as I always do) when we travelled to Quezon though.
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I love Tagaytay too. The weather is just right. The traffic here in Metro Manila is terrible….you need a lot of patience.
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Great post. Love the way you’ve expressed yourself here.
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Thank you Damyanti☺
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