When I was just starting my blog I wrote this blog post and I am re-posting it here because until now (from nine years ago) I still receive text messages like this. A friend at FB recently posted this question: “Do you text using full words or abbreviations?”
A decade has passed and yet texting the shortest way possible is still the name of the game. My goodness, maybe this is one reason why some kids nowadays could not even spell words correctly. I know, the trend now is using your cellphone instead of a landline phone. with a cellphone, you can go anywhere with it.
I don’t buy the alibi of some that they are just saving on time. Misspelling a three letter word, condensing it to just one is just a no, no for me. Why is just spelled plain Y. It’s won’t take a minute of your time to text the full word right? I love reading text in full words and full sentence too. And I text that way.
Some prefer calls which is more expensive than sending a text message. Some big companies here like Globe and Smart Communications have included free calls on the same network as long as you are paying a fixed online subscription but they charge additional ones when you have exceeded your limit in a month.
Texting is for everyone. A janitor on the street, a vendor in the market, a student and almost everyone else has cellphones. Of course, they are not those lovely gadgets that you see every six months in the market. You can buy a cellphone at a low price of P500.00 pesos and you can take low resolutions pictures too (they are almost blurred when you enlarge them). You can use call and text cards or what they call e-loads.
Ten Things I Hate About Texting
Sure, texting is a tad way to reach people that easily – as long as the signal is okay, you have enough load (if you are using a prepaid account) and you are busy to call the person you want to talk too. Texting can make or break your day depending on how creative or imaginative the other texter is or how annoying sometimes when you receive a text message which is not to your liking. Herein are some of the things I really hate about texting:
1. Hu U – receiving a text with a message like this is not just annoying,it defies good manners. You can ask politely enough without resorting to a three-letter question which you can’t even qualify if it is Tagalog or not.
2. K – How much does it take texting the whole word “okey” or okay” than just plainly sending K? Are you trying to be in or what?
3. Dito na me – who me? This is even more unacceptable than the K word, if there’s such a thing. Either you speak straight Tagalog or plain simple English.
4. Wer na u? – same thing as number three. It is obnoxious.
5. Receiving chain texts, like a prayer, asking you to send them to at least 10 or 15 people, otherwise something happens if you don’t. Receiving grace from above is unconditional.Goodness, are you playing God? I could appreciate just a short and simple prayer or a nice quote than having this one in my message inbox.
6. Too much abbreviated words – it’s beginning to look like English is a mangled language. It’s okay to substitute 4 for “for” or d for “the” but deliberately misspelling the word even if there is just one letter to insert to correct it is plain laziness for me.
7. Kol me, kol kita – another abused term in texting. You just have to add another letter to correct it to “call”. Have they never learned that they allow 160 characters in one “send” and it costs one peso just the same?
8. Just like in No. 5, receiving texts from people whom you don’t know from Eve and asking you to send the same message to your network of friends. Unless it is a “quotable quote” again and the receiver would even thank you back for forwarding it, why should you?
9. Just plain guessing about your number and when you politely respond, they would text you back, “pwede ba kitang ka-text mate” or something to that effect.
10. Receiving an unknown call or texts in the middle of the night when you are about to sleep only to inform you there is such and such on such and such a date. Can’t it wait till tomorrow? I need to have my beauty rest. hehe..
Honestly, I always do the texting the old-fashioned way, full words, Tagalog if Tagalog and English when I’m in the mood. I like receiving inspirational messages first thing in the morning , because sometimes I do it too, send quotes to my close friends as my good deed for the day. I remember now, I have these two or three former office mates and a fellow carpool rider before, the usual thing is, you ask how the person is after a few months of not hearing from him/her but these people start the night or day just forwarding annoying chain texts which I never bother to forward anyway. How about just saying, kumusta ka na or how are you? Don’t you think it would make the recipient more responsive to your text?
Yes, we all text but like you I always use full words. And my kids do too, thankfully.
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That’s so nice to know Miriam. Good morning from here!
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And hugs from here 🙂
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Thanks!
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It’s not like that here in the US, Tita. I guess there’s no such thing as ” buying a load ” or something…. over here, it’s unlimited , and it’s normal… Maybe the Philippines is the only country that ” buys load ” ???? People who write that way will become stupid as years go buy, lol… Over here, we’ll call that ghetto.
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Haha, I agree Ren. You can even see them commenting on FB. Baluktot na ang English, even the grammar is out of this world. You can buy an e-load here as cheap as P20.00. I think. The sellers earn a lot that way too.
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The full word comes up anyway when you type, so I use full words. I must say that I dislike k!
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Same here Amy. Oh but they disregard those 😦
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You might like this post: https://derrickjknight.com/2012/11/07/prolixity-or-conciseness/
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Read it before but I forgot all about it already. Sometimes I really don’t understand those abbreviated words.
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Sorry I didn’t check that you’d read it, Arlene
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That’s okay Derrick. Glad to be updated.
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I am with you on text speak, Arlene. I always text full words, and check spellings too.
But we are from a generation taught to value things like grammar. Sadly, that text speak is now migrating onto blogs, and doesn’t seem to be going away.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Yes, it is sad isn’t it? Some college graduates here don’t even know how to form proper, grammatically correct sentences. FB has a lot of this, it is quite annoying when you read it. The use of Your and You’re are always wrong. So with Its and It’s and so many more.
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My vote is with you, Arlene. I text in full English, grateful for spellcheck. Only one teen, not related to me, wrote that mishmash to me. It always took me a while to translate it into English.
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Thank you Anne. It’s crazy, isn’t it?
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Me too, Arlene. These letters become riddles.
Ok is short enough, I think 😀. Thanks for sharing.
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Thanks Nahla 🙂
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I have avoided the whole text message mess. My daughter uses it with me. That is more than enough for me. She uses full words.
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At least she uses full words Elizabeth. Texting is cheaper than making calls on you cellphones here.
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Here it is the same price.
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Really, then phone calls would be better I think.
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All depends on who I’m talking to
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