I always laugh when Mom calls our dog Noki by another name. Boo is the only name she can remember out of our several dogs that have passed on. Of course, Noki just would not respond. He would just look at her and would only come near when there is food in his dog plate.
Haha, Mom is getting bored with my company I think. We could not talk like we used to since she could not understand. She said she could not read small letters, even the big ones that I write with a pentel pen. At her age of almost 89, she’s getting thinner. Her doctor prescribed vitamins and for her to drink milk every day. He said that the more we grow older, our body mass diminishes. She still watches TV though, a bit louder than before. I wonder how she could understand those stories being shown. When she speaks, it is loud because she can’t hear herself while speaking. Her right ear is now completely deaf. She hasn’t adjusted to using hearing aid.
Can you live in a world where you hear only noises? I can’t imagine a world without sound but I can’t even fathom how it is to go deaf and just hear sounds without understanding anything. One good thing though is she can comprehend words when you speak softly to her left ear.
Mom is the youngest of four girls. Their oldest sister died last year. She reached a hundred I think. the bonus years were definitely kinder.
Thinking of life, thinking of getting older. Of course most of us want to live longer and enjoy life a bit more.
I am presently going through the same with my 82 year old father. He has suffered a stroke as well…watching them ‘phase’ out is very cruel, I wish your mother well. She is so lucky to have you and still find ways to laugh….My dad never gets the dogs name right either..or the grand kids for that matter.
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so sorry to hear about your dad Noel. I guess, when one gets older, all those aches and pains present themselves more prominently. Let us pray for a long life for them. Thank you so much.
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peace and long life
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Thank you so much. Will visit your blog in a while.
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Parents, in-laws all getting older. Trying to help them cope and understand their insecurities at this stage in life……it always gives us new life lessons to learn everyday!
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so true…so many lessons learned. One of them is enough patience to understand what is happening in their lives. Thanks Radhika.
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Absolutely Arlene!
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At 95, my Mum still has her keen mind, although she is now very frail
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Wow, that is so nice Derrick. You are so blessed.
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My Mum refused to admit she was deaf, and had her TV on maximum volume, number 30! When her eyesight failed too, she sat so close to the screen that she couldn’t really make out what was happening. Her final years were very sad, and she was unhappy all the time. For some people, living too long is not a good option, but your Mum still seems to be enjoying life, and that’s the main thing.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Thanks Pete. My mom is stubborn most of the time and when she can’t understand what you’re saying she does an about face murmuring, I guess I guess our olds cannot help feeling so insecure at times
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I think we get to use the same patience on the elderly that they used on us when we were rowdy kids. At least that is what I try to remind myself.
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Right Elizabeth, that should be our right attitude towards our elders.
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