I had a good short chat with my doctor today. I told him I am a survivor. He asked how long ago it was. He told me to forget about it. I have survived more than five years. What is important is that I am well now. Yes, I said. Health is wealth. He advised me to avoid stress as much as possible because it is the number one cause of illness. I do agree. It’s a good thing my blood pressure is now normal and my blood sugar has been consistently normal for the past four months since my first visit the last week of January. I have to keep on the maintenance though, it’s for life. He said to always be happy and look on the brighter things. Everyone of us has problems to overcome.
I suddenly remember one of our favorite topics before on our page at Facebook. Which is more important, the journey or the destination? The journey would always be difficult somehow but then there is a certain kind of joy when we reach our destination. Maybe our attitude towards reaching our dreams counts a lot.The road maybe sometimes rough and treacherous but we carry on. We want to take a glimpse of what lies ahead.
Can’t believe it. My son is turning thirty-three tomorrow. Seems like only yesterday when we would walk together to the next street in our subdivision, he, to go to school and I, to wait for my FX service in going to work. We had adopted this ritual of listening to a fifteen minute Bible reading and reflections in one of the FM stations on radio by a Dominican priest. It was aptly called The Sounds of the Soul. Along the way, we would discuss what we heard and learned. Those were the days that I miss. The program is gone now replaced by morning news. Until now, my son and I still go together to attend mass on Sundays. Sometimes, he attends one in the morning with me and one in the evening with his girlfriend. He never forgets our Sunday obligation. Looking forward to a simple birthday celebration. He’ll be on vacation leave for a few days.
I am into memoirs now, a two-series books by Susan Cutsforth, a journey of taking risks, living an extraordinary life in a town somewhere in France. I can’t help but compare the writings with that of Peter Mayle’s trilogy, memoirs about his stay in Provence. I love the latter’s works. He is a British author
How was your weekend?
Wish your son a very happy birthday Arlene! I liked your ritual of listening to Bible on the FM station and discussing the learning from it. What a beautiful way to bond with your child ❤ !
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Thank you Radhika, we used to do that. I miss that too. Thank you so much for the birthday greetings.
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I would always go with journey over destination myself, Arlene.
Glad to hear that your doctor has told you not to concern yourself any longer.
Best wishes, Pete.
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He is good Pete. thanks.
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I agree that more than anything, stress is the cause of cancer. I had a very stressful year prior to my cancer diagnosis.
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One of my oncologists said before that stress is a major cause of cancer.
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Stay well, Arlene. I think you know about my weekend 🙂
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Thank you so much Derrick.
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What a wonderful relationship you have nurtured with your son, Arlene!
Those memoirs sound interesting, too…I loved Mayle’s books.
Blessings on your day!
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Thanks Kitty. Glad to find another Mayle fan.
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i’d go for the journey. oftentimes we know our destination but how to get there plays an important role. stay well, Arlene and birthday greetings to your son! 🙂
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Thanks a lot Wilma. I think most of us would prefer the journey than the destination. Salamat sa birthday greetings.
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Hi Arlene, My son turned 38 in March…I’m like you…I can’t believe how fast the time went.
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Belated greetings to your son. Yes time moves really fast.
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Such good news about your health. I think you are on the right track to keeping your stress down. Reading, making rosaries, gardening are all peaceful activities. And seeing your family brings joy which helps us live longer too.
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Thank you so much Elizabeth. Yes, I am taking things as they go along, no stress, just happy thoughts.
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Time races by, doesn’t it? I’m so glad you got the okay from your doctor and he told you not to worry. Health is indeed wealth. Stay blessed. ❤
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Thanks a lot Diana. be blessed too.
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The journey, especially if it’s not smooth, will help one appreciate the destination more I think. Stress can be hard to manage at times, but having enough peaceful activities in one’s life can make all the difference. Sounds to me like you’re on the right track! Have a great week Arlene! 🙋
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Thank you Sabine. We learn a lot while going through life’s journey.
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Yes! And some more than others! Enjoy your day! 😊
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Thank you, have a lovely weekend.
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