Mornings are definitely getting colder. Officially, we’re now at the start of the Amihan season, dominated by trade winds which means cooler temperature. Hopefully, gone are the days of flash flood, thunderstorms and endless rain showers. On second thoughts, it is during the months of November and December that the Philippines experiences stronger typhoons when the southwest monsoon meets the northeast winds. I like this lovely season best of all, a clear sign that Christmas is near. Oh, I am not counting, I’m just excited about it all 🙂
Imagine yourself going to bed at an ungodly hour of 7pm and waking up at an even crazier time of 3am. I like it though, when you feel the palpable quiet all around, no motorcycles and motor cars to disturb the peace, just those silent moments of introspection and soul-searching. It’s an additional bonus to write a blog with an uninterrupted and faster internet connection.
Gosh, I’ll be turning 58 in ten days, a certified and indulgent “lola”. Life is good and I am grateful. When I think of the times I went through in the past I could not help but wonder how I was able to stay standing still. Those are my favorite words nowadays, standing still. Standing still amidst the vicissitudes of life, standing still amidst the trying times that you have no control of, standing still despite and in spite of every bend on the road that you encounter. I am grateful though for the endless blessings that God bestows on me and my family. Believe me, the trying times make one stronger and braver because they make you realize that you possess that inner strength and courage to face it all. I remember what Nissa told me yesterday about what Nate recently learned. I smile at the thought that my almost two-year old grandson is learning positive attitude at such a tender age. When you say “God is good“, he would answer in a clear voice with two hands raised, “all the time”.
A friend once told me that as you get older, you tend to reminisce about the good old days and the times that made you really, really smile. Isn’t that what life is all about? The past carries with it lessons that would help us in our present journey. I do remember. We ought to be growing wiser with age and welcoming getting older with grace.
Joy is shaped by simple pleasures.
I love your positive outlook in life Arlene!
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Let’s live a stress-free life Lou no matter how hard it is sometimes to stay positive.
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Tita, teary-eyed naman ako sa post mo. huhu. “Standing still amidst the vicissitudes of life..” ang ganda..post ko yan sa FB ko hehehe.
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I didn’t mean for you to cry Cel…hehe! I am glad you find some inspiring words in this post. Thank you so much!
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Good thought “standing still” to ponder on. . . . . Many thanks and
HAPPY BIRTHDAY in advance Maam Arlene, may God bless you more with best health of mind and body and serenity of soul.
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Thank you so much Imelda. It is so nice to hear from you again. How are you doing?
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I like the idea of ‘standing still’ Arlene. That is something I have learned how to do, since moving here from a busy life in London. You are almost five years younger than me, yet we have very similar ideas about grace in old age.
Best wishes from England, Pete.
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We always say age is just a number besides our names, what matters is how we look at life and how we live it 🙂 Happiness is always a choice, right?
Growing old gracefully! Thanks Pete 🙂
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love this post, Arlene! advance happy birthday! indeed, life is good!
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Thank you so much lolaWi!
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Wow, you do not look 58. I would have guessed you were in your 20’s. Of course, 58 is no where near being old. Happy birthday in advance! I pray you do not have any typhoons or other terrible weather. Blessings to you my friend.
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Hahaha, you made me smile Tina, if you are referring to my gravatar photo here, that was taken ages ago. It’s nearing your birthday too, let’s celebrate online 🙂
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